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Please note that this is a “follow-on” article. It is best read after my articles “Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and Negative Core Beliefs (NCBs) – Causes” and “Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and Negative Core Beliefs (NCBs) – Identification”.
What can be done about Negative Core Beliefs? There are several options open to a CBT Therapist, but in my experience as a Psychiatrist and Therapist in Edinburgh I find that the following method is particularly effective.
Firstly, the method is to challenge these Negative Core Beliefs, in much the same way that a CBT Therapist would challenge a person’s Negative Automatic Thoughts. The CBT Therapist and the client can look for evidence that the Negative Core Belief is true, and then look for evidence that it is false. The client is then in a position to make a reasoned judgement as to whether it is rational and healthy to continue holding their Negative Core Belief. If they don’t think it’s rational, then they can begin to look for alternative beliefs that better explain the evidence.
An example of this method might be challenging a client’s Negative Core Belief that “People are dangerous”. Evidence in favour of this belief might be that they had unpleasant and frightening experiences growing up – perhaps their father was abusive, or they were severely bullied at school. Experiences as an adult may also play a role – the overbearing boss at work, or the “friend” who turns out to be rather two-faced etc. Evidence against the belief that “People are Dangerous” could include the fact that their mother and grandparents were kind and loving, and that she had a few friends at school who were supportive. Perhaps most of her work colleagues now are nice and trustworthy, and the boss is renowned for being unpleasant and cantankerous to everyone.
With evidence of this sort compiled both “for” and “against” the belief, the client can weigh it up and make a judgment. In this particular case, the evidence may seem roughly evenly balanced both “for” and “against”. In which case the client may decide not to totally reject their original belief, but modify it somewhat. They may decide that the statement: “Some people are dangerous, but some aren’t” is a better description of the evidence. Learning to live with this new modified belief will almost certainly lead to the client having less emotional problems.
However, this is easier said than done. After all, your Negative Core Beliefs have been with you a long time – they can seem like an integral part of who you are, and as such, you can’t just “turn them off” like that. They’re well-trodden paths that can feel very comfortable and familiar, even if (in the long run) they cause you a lot of problems.
What a CBT Therapist may suggest is that rather than trying to actively eliminate your Negative Core Belief, it can be more productive to focus your attention on actively cultivating your new, alternative Core Belief. In my experience as a therapist in Edinburgh, one of the most powerful ways that a client can employ in order to start thinking in newer, healthier ways is to start behaving as if they already truly believed the new Core Belief. That is, to make a conscious decision to act in accordance with their new belief. In the example given, the client will act as if they already believed the new core belief “Some people are dangerous but some aren’t”. They will (quite consciously and deliberately) assume that people are not always dangerous and act in accordance with this (e.g. smile, be friendly, trusting etc), and make a conscious note of the results of such behaviour. Ordinarily the results will be pleasant, positive, and re-inforcing of the new belief. By repeating this behaviour day-in and day-out it will become second-nature, and the client will, deep down, really start to believe their new Core Belief. No longer will they see all other people as inevitably dangerous, and their instinctive initial responses to others will reveal a mature and trusting attitude.
This CBT technique of acting “As-If” is a very powerful way of inculcating real sustainable changes in your Core Beliefs.
The theory of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT, is that emotions are closely linked to cognition. Put more simply, CBT says that “the way you think affects the way you feel”. People who think anxious thoughts will end up feeling anxious.
Thus it is important for me to help each client to become familiar with their own ways of thinking, and to help them to identify ways in which their thinking patterns may be contributing to their emotional problems.
A CBT therapist has a term for patterns of thinking that can lead to emotional problems – they are called “Thinking Errors”. Many different types of thinking error have been identified over the years, but what follows is a brief summary of those thinking errors commonly found when working with people suffering from anxiety.
“Catastrophising” is a thinking error frequently found in anxious people. In fact, I’m sure we’ve all done it ourselves at some point! When someone catastrophises they automatically “assume the worst”. A message to call back the boss is taken to mean that you’re going to be sacked, a clunking noise in your car means that the engine is about to fall to bits, and a pain in the chest is the beginnings of a heart attack. CBT hypothesises that habitually thinking like this will lead to long-term problems with anxiety.
Another common thinking error seen in people with anxiety is called “Mind-Reading”. As the name suggests, a person who’s exhibiting this thinking error will believe that they know (absolutely know) what people are thinking about them. This belief will often go contrary to what the other person says and does, and is almost always pessimistic in nature. For instance, if the CBT therapist yawns (heaven forbid!) during a session, the client will know that the CBT therapist is bored or fed up with them – even if the therapist apologises and explains that her young daughter is teething and kept her awake last night. Or if the person gets invited to a dinner party, they will know that they’re only invited along to make up the seating numbers. Thinking in this way can make life one long series of possible sleights and put-downs, leading to increased anxiety and excessive monitoring of those around you.
“Fortune Telling” is a third common thinking error in anxiety. People thinking in this way know what is going to happen in the future. And, lo and behold, it’s bad! The bus will definitely be running late, they will definitely fail the interview, and they will absolutely make a fool of themselves at the works party. Not a pleasant way to think. And certainly not a good way to prepare for an interview (or even a party!). CBT encourages people to “keep it real” – there’s enough strife out there without looking into the future for extra!
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT, is an effective psychological treatment for a wide range of psychological and emotional problems. A prominent feature of their symptom profile is the presence of “Depressive Ruminations”.
The term “rumination” relates to a repeated cycle of activity – in the case of cows (“ruminants”), this means chewing the cud! In CBT circles, ruminations are the repeated, seemingly endless, “stuck” ways of thinking seen in certain psychological conditions. It is particularly common in depression.
There can be many “themes” to an individuals ruminations, but the most common is a search for some sort of answer to questions such as “Why am I feeling like this?” or “What could I have done to avoid this?”. Another common theme is one of remorse or regret – “If only I had done (whatever) differently I wouldn’t be in this position now” or “I’ve ruined my life”. Depressive ruminations about the future are also seen – “Everything’s going to go wrong”. Ruminations often incorporate what a CBT therapist would call “Thinking Errors”.
What does it feel like to ruminate? Well, I’m sure we’ve all done it at one time or another! It’s like trying to solve an unsolvable riddle – you just go round and round inside your head, examining the same old “clues”, time and time again. If only you’d done this, or said that, or had this, or not had that. You convince yourself that there’s an answer, and that when you find it then you’ll be fine. But of course there is no “answer”. People can ruminate for hours in severe cases, but up to an hour is more usual.
How do you know when you’re ruminating? Because you’ve stopped doing everything else! You haven’t turned the page of your book for the past 20 minutes, or you’re standing in the kitchen with a dishcloth in your hands, gazing off into space. If someone asks you what you’ve been thinking, you can bet it’s the same old depressive thoughts that you’ve been carrying around for ages.
Is there a problem with ruminating? Well, yes. It differs from other forms of thought such as problem-solving, or reflecting, or remembering, in two ways. Firstly, most people find it rather unpleasant. The same old worries getting churned up again and again are bound to make us feel sad or anxious. Secondly, rumination tends to worsen (or at least maintain) depression – if you focus on how bad you feel and how hopeless (you feel) your situation is, then you will ignore opportunities for change.
CBT theory sees depressive ruminations as a major obstacle to recovery from depression, and as such it is important for clients to learn how to deal with them. There are a range of techniques, but the ones I favour are both simple and effective (and almost common sense!).
If you realise you are ruminating, then now’s the time to do something energetic. It’s hard to ruminate when you’re out on a run, or swimming, or doing press-ups. The pain tends to get in the way! Or, if you’re not the exercise type, try refocusing your attention. Focus (really focus hard!) on some aspect of your surroundings – a picture on the wall, a tree, the cat – and examine it for detail, noting each and every irregularity and shade of colour. Pretend that you’re a famous artist and that you’re going to paint the most brilliant, detailed, lifelike picture ever! Really focusing on things outside of you (meaning “outside of your head”!) helps to dislodge your thinking from ruminative patterns. A final tactic – one that some clients swear by and others can’t get the hang of at all – is to “stand-back” (“in your head”, as it were!) and let your thoughts simply churn away to themselves, whilst acknowledging them as pointless symptoms of your depression. By letting them “get on with it”, and refusing to “play with them”, you disarm them of their depression-causing capability – eventually they’ll get bored and go away!
There are a number of other methods out there in the literature, and I don’t claim that these work for everybody. A good thing about the CBT ethos is that it shies away from doctrinal doings – there’s no “You have to do it this way or else!” in CBT. So the bottom line is, use whatever method you find helps you the most, and say “Goodbye!” to those unpleasant ruminations!
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